Monday, 13 March 2017

5 Moves That Make You Look Bad In Bed— And How To Fix Them

1. Fidgeting: A guy will be bad in bed by how
he moves. Quick, jerky or nervous movements
show plainly that he’s not comfortable in his
own body, and won’t be comfortable with
mine.

Fix it: The quickest solution is exercise, especially a masculine sport such as boxing
or MMA. If you don’t enjoy getting punched i
the grill repeatedly on a daily basis, go for Crossfit—it totally changes how you move,
increases body coordination and obliterates stress.
Say goodbye to nervous, jerky
movements and say hello to a new body type and level of fitness. As a bonus, most Crossfi
boxes (gyms) are jam-packed with hot, fit women

2. Queasiness: You’re grossed out by the human body and freak when a girl has leg
hair, you spot menstrual blood, etc.

Our girl Andrea, 27, tells us, “the yard shouldn’t have
to be perfectly groomed for you to play in it.”
If you’re verbally or visibly uneasy with the female body or your own, she senses that
you’re probably going to be a pretty sterile,
unimaginative lay.

Fix it: Get over it, bro. s*x is sometimes dow
and dirty. The more you learn to dig that, the
more comfortable she’ll feel letting her guard
down around you both on the streets and
between the sheets.

3. Indecision: Think “I don’t know, what do you want to do tonight?” That kind of wishy-
washiness hardly impresses Leyla, 26. “When
he leaves everything to me on a date, it leads me to expect that he’s going to be the same
way in the bedroom, and women don’t want that.”

Fix it: Man up and plan a date. It doesn’t hav
to be perfect—just putting forth the effort goes a long way. Quick tip: Invite her to something you’re already planning on doing.

“Hey, have you been to the Chinese Market
downtown? Some friends and I might check it
out this weekend. They’ve got all kinds of unidentifiable things that you can eat. Feeling
adventurous enough to join us?”

The added benefit is, if she flakes, you’re not stuck
sitting around.

4. Bad Touching : This is one of the top complaints women have about men regarding
foreplay and s*x. It’s something that even many experienced guys get totally, horribly
wrong. Emily, 28, explains that she “has to like the way his casual touch feels. If I
unconsciously tense up and pull away from his touch, I listen to my body. Also, if he
touches me too much or not enough, I can
tell he won’t know how to please me when
things get more intimate.”

Fix it: Your touch should be natural, and
escalate from friendly to something more ove
time. In other words, the exact opposite of the ultra-common mistake—not touching until
you’re trying to “make a move.” Also, don’t look at the area you’re touching or call undue attention to it, which will creep her out big time. All this requires practice.

5. Lack of Adventure: Saying things that mak
you sound boring in the sack is unforgivable.
Among the worst blunders is being
judgmental about other people’s s*xual
proclivities. Katie, 29, was turned off when a
guy expressed a bit of revulsion about a past
s*xual exploit. “He basically labeled himself a
dead cow in bed when he told me that the last girl he dated was ‘kind of a freak’
because she wanted him to pull her hair.

Sorry, but almost every girl I know loves that
at the right time. If he thinks that was weird, I’m going to have to teach him everything,
and it’ll probably fall on deaf ears.”

Fix it: Keep an open mind, and, if you can’t, shut the hell up. The saddest part is, the poo
schmuck in the above example was probably just testing the waters to see if Katie would
be into it—he just handled it all wrong. The best way to introduce something new, by the
way, is to gently give it a try while you’re in
the act and go from there. Just, maybe don’t bring out the handcuffs right away.


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